Competition, Nerves, and Preparation

Confidence comes from the work you did when nobody was watching.

People often ask if I get nervous before competitions. The answer is yes. I still get nervous. I don't think the nerves ever really go away. But over time, I learned to look at nerves differently.

When I feel nervous before a competition, I don't ask myself if I am going to win.
I ask myself something else: Did I prepare as well as I could?

Preparation is not only about training hard.
Preparation is also about how you live in the weeks and months before the competition.

Did I go to bed on time?
Did I eat well and take care of my body?
Did I show up to training even when I was tired?
Did I help my training partners and create a good environment in the gym?
Did I take responsibility for my own progress?

When I can answer yes to those questions, the nerves become different. They don't disappear, but they become calmer. Because then I know I did what I could.

The evening before the competition, or the morning of the competition, I often think the same thing:
You did everything you could. The rest is not in your control anymore.

You cannot control the opponent.
You cannot control the referee.
You cannot control the bracket or the timing.
You cannot control everything that happens during the match.

But you can control your preparation.
And that is where confidence comes from.

So for me, competition is not only about the match.
Competition is a test of your preparation and your lifestyle.

You don't build confidence the day of the competition.
You build confidence in all the days you did the right things when nobody was watching.

And once the match starts, you just accept whatever comes.
Because you know you already did your work.

The result is one day. The preparation is months and years.

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